Hoi uvasacq, hoe staat de zaak er voor? Ze wil het waarschijnlijk gewoon zelf ondervinden en dan zal ze je wel op de hoogte brengen (denk ik). Gaat ze er voor ben je vanaf dat punt haar cuck en beta male geworden. Hoor ik nog van je? Groetjes, Bull Wil - Zuid-Holland.Update:
Things are moving very fast atm. I just intercepted text messages between my gf and a friend of her.
So basically we gave each other a free card for ONE TIME only and we discussed that being open and honest is key to make this work, but I just found out she is going to brake that rule. She said to her friend that this guy who is texting with is coming to town and she wants to fuck other dudes for years so she can’t hold it anymore. She wants to meet with him. That is litteraly what she said. But the most shocking part is that she said she is not going to tell me. So if that happens she is breaking our rules and I don’t think this will stay with one time only from her side.
I have very mixed emotions at the moment, because I don’t like the feeling of betrayal and I want to trust her. I also don’t understand why she doesn’t want to share with me, because she can literally discuss anything with me. Part of me wants to confront her, but that will mean I will ruin this whole process. And I also feel lots of excitement and also feel humiliated and that I can’t control it anymore, which is turning me on very much.
Not sure what to do, but will keep you in the loop. I am open to advice.
How did she (or the two of you) "pick" this guy that she's messaging with?Update:
Things are moving pretty quickly. We decided to give it a go on both sides after we agreed on our boundaries to eachother. We didn’t do that yet, but we agreed when we have done that we both have green light.
Today she was with her friend again who has an sexual affair, she constantly condemns the cheating part but is also constantly telling me she understands her excitement.
My gf is texting with a guy (she doesn’t know that I know) for somewhile now and it was a bit of vanilla texting untill now. Since friday we sort of made the deal with eachother and she is really going for it now. I think the excitement has build to a level she can’t hold it anymore. I don’t think there is turning back now and that is a little scary to be honest. She asked him when he is coming to our country and I just found his reply saying that he was considering coming next week. So wtf it allready could be happening next week. I am very curious if she is going to push on setting the boundaries, then I know enough and it will happen next week. Damn, don’t know what to feel at the moment because things are getting real.
You'd do well to forget boundaries and just let her do what she doesHow did she (or the two of you) "pick" this guy that she's messaging with?
She met him during a night out and exchanged numbers.How did she (or the two of you) "pick" this guy that she's messaging with?
Yeah, she doesn’t have any boundaries sexwise (except safe). I want her to enjoy the full experience.You'd do well to forget boundaries and just let her do what she does
An experienced bull will use boundaries as a target and diminish you in her eyes.
Look, if its something she wamts to do, ur best move is to support her & urge her to enjoy herself.
Its better than each of you lying.
Great one. She just asked me if I have a time when she needs to be home. I dropped the time and said if she would like to ...... there she can. I hope she does and they will fuck again in the morning..You need to think about when she comes home what your expectations will be? Maybe she will want to spend the night with him and come home in the morning or even spend all weekend with him? Are you going to ask for details? Let her only share what she wants to share. Are you going to lick her well used pussy as she tells you all they did? I think most ladies like to be eaten by their husband or boyfriend after they have sex with others. Shows you are comfortable and happy they got fucked. Shows her you want to share her experience by tasting her.
I'll warn you once: since you're not married, there's nothing keeping her with you if she finds the grass is greener on the other side. If you're not 1000% secure in your relationship, then just know there's a measurable chance that going down this path could result in you losing her to another man.I also think she is quite shocked and surprised he was considering coming next week. I think she is a bit overwhelmed aswell. Really curious if the fear kicks in and that she will pull out or can’t help herself anymore and just go for it.
Good luck!!! Tell us how it goes.100% I am a cuck after this saturday. Very curious how the relationship will evolve from there..